1 Hipbone 10 months ago Tormented over making this decision but in the end had to listen to my gut and give one of my band mates the axe.It came down to personality and a lack of professionalism. Talented guy, but I just couldn’t do it anymore. Where do you draw the line with band mates? For me it was the lack of professionalism, ie. I just never knew what would spew out of his mouth while on stage, and he wasn’t willing to change.