Reinforcing the notion of calling the police. You'd think they wouldn't be interested, but in my direct experience, at least some departments ARE.
I sent 53.00 for a Boss chorus pedal to a seller in Washington state a couple of years ago. No response. A fella who'd also sent the guy money about the same time contacted me saying he hadn't got his product either – nor had a few other buyers.
All told, the guy had taken payment on around 500.00 worth of product and shipped none. We contacted the Bellingham Police Department, and since we all had the documentation of every step of the transactions, an officer paid the kid (as it turned out to be) and his father a call.
The police stayed in touch with us. 10 days later I had a brand new Boss chorus pedal.
Given the cost of this transaction, and the additional possibility that you've been scammed on the damage too (the old hospital ploy, no less...), that it's interstate (international?) and internet fraud – I think the police will be very interested.
I take people at face value, as you did – until I have reason to suspect something rotten in Denmark. No foul against you for being trusting.
Now it's time to call the law.
